Thursday, December 11, 2014

How to make Condoms Cool for men in Tanzania


In spite of the impressive economic and democratic gains Tanzania has made over the last 5 decades since independence, there still exist gaping holes in the issue of morality and sexuality. Sex education is yet to become main stream and debates concerning safe sex are discussed in hushed tones. In fact, its correct to say that condom use and safe sex talks are looked at upon as a taboo by the largely conservative natives whose views on sex education is more or less informed by a misrepresentation of facts. The scourge of HIV aids is real as the air we breathe and as such it is time that major emphasis is placed on safe sex and taking responsibility.

Though there have been massive campaigns on HIV aids awareness and the need to practice safe sex, little progress has been made towards making condoms seem cool and fashionable. The campaign has suffered a massive PR problem as much emphasis is placed on the dangers that come with non-use of condom rather than the underlying benefits that come with it. Practicing safe sex is not only a responsibility but also an obligation that each and every Tanzanian should embrace wholeheartedly. The truth of the matter is we all are victims of the HIV aids. We ether are infected or affected by the scourge and it’s about time we took the bull by the horns and address the issue head on.

Of course, stressing on abstinence seems to have hit a snag especially with hormone raging teenagers who are quick to throw caution to the wind and engage in unprotected sex at whim. With this in mind, there is a need for a massive campaign to encourage the youth and Tanzanian populace at large to embrace the use of condoms. Considering that condoms have been around for a long time, one might be wondering what new can condoms do to whip the Tanzanian citizenry into engaging in safe sex. The long held perception and belief that condoms hinder sexual satisfaction is nothing more than a fallacy that has been effectively propagated by ignorant men and women in the society.

Condom indeed can be made cool and effectively used towards fighting sexually transmitted diseases and ultimately the scourge of HIV aids. With this in mind, it has become instrumental for all stakeholders in Tanzania and beyond to ask themselves the one million dollar question; how can we make condom cool for men? What is it that can be done to make condoms cool and spark an interest in them for the male populace in Tanzania? Of course, making condoms cool for men requires a commitment, a different kind of thinking outside the box and a need to address the concerns of Tanzanian men as relates to condom use.

There is need to eliminate the perceptions and fallacious beliefs that talking about condom is a taboo. Considering that men hold an upper hand in many sexual relationships, it would be foolhardy to discuss about condom use without factoring them or looking at ways through which condoms can be made cool for men not only in Tanzania but also far and beyond the borders. How then do we make condoms cool for men? Below is an incisive and objective look at the various ways through which condoms can be made cool for men.

·        Using celebrities to advertise condoms
It’s common knowledge that majority of the youth look up to celebrities for inspiration. The youth love to be trendy, to spot the latest fashion attires and to imitate what celebrities do. Of course, no one wants to be outdated and there is no better way to make condoms cool than using popular celebrities in the local scene to advertise condoms. Celebrities such as Diamond Platinum or Joti who command a massive following among the youth would do a great job towards changing the perception on condoms. These celebrities can be effectively used to pass across the message that condom use and safe sex is the way to go. Given the fact that many youths idolize their celebrities and more often than not imitate what they do to the letter, condom advertising by various popular celebrities would surely go a long way towards making condom use by Tanzanian men cool.

·        Using the right message during condom advertisements
When setting the mood for sex, emphasis needs to be on pleasure rather than the morbid fear for diseases or pregnancies. Condom advertisement needs to adopt pleasure as a focal point rather than approaching condom advertisement as a reactive measure. Condom advertising should be proactive and be effective in encouraging most Tanzanian men to see condom as cool and inadvertently buy condoms. A majority of the Tanzanian men look at sex as a pleasurable activity and as such the emphasis should be on pleasure rather than on the need to prevent diseases or unwanted pregnancies.
With this in mind, condom advertising should put greater emphasis on sensuality and the benefits that come with condom use. For instance, the advertisement should focus more on how condoms can be effective in making a man last longer and by so doing ensuring that his partner is satisfied. Emphasis should be on the features of the condom that serve to make it cool and enjoyable rather than simply preventing pregnancies and other venereal diseases.

·        Design condoms of various flavors with enticing packaging
Condom fatigue is a real issue that afflicts most Tanzanian men. Having used the same kind of condoms over the past 4 decades, there is need to address the issue of condom fatigue by designing condoms of different flavors that appeal to Tanzanian men from different walks of life. Designing condoms of different flavors would surely go a long way towards making the act of sex enjoyable. It also provides a window through which men can try condoms of different flavors hence making the act of love making more pleasurable.
Condoms of different flavors and even colors will surely pique the curiosity of men who would want to try them out and find out what it is that they promise. Of course, the issue of appearance cannot be overlooked. An adage goes that men are visual creatures. As such, the packaging needs to be enticing in such a way that it would make a man want to buy it. The packaging, the wording and even the image on the condoms pack should appeal to a man’s innermost and wildest sexual fantasies. Proper efforts should be put towards creative designing and packaging and this will surely make condoms cool.
·        Manufacture of condoms with different sizes
It’s an open secret that many men shy away from using condoms because they rarely find the right size. This in many cases is frustrating especially when the condom is too tight/small or too big. Clearly indicating the size of the condoms on their packs will go a long way towards making them cool and spur them to buy condoms. As you already know, sex needs to be a pleasurable activity and as such the wrong condom size is a step towards the wrong direction. This inconvenience in terms of size makes many Tanzanian men view condoms in a negative way as something that reduces sexual pleasure. Designing condoms of different sizes and going a step further to indicate size would surely serve to make condoms cool for men. They will buy condoms based on their sizes and ultimately enjoy sex without any frustrations. The bottom line is; condom size does matter!
·        Condom test campaign
It’s essential to create a condom testing campaign that is fun and edgy for the condom users. The campaign should be focused on encouraging partners to try and test different kinds of condom and settle on one that will heighten their sexual experience with their partners. Such a campaign should stress on the need to use a condom that is comfortable, relaxing, and enjoyable and which makes the sexual experience with the partner exciting. The campaign should stress emphasis on the need for partners to test different kinds of condoms, flavors or even colors in an attempt to find the right kind of condom that would make the sexual experience pleasurable and a past time favorite activity.
·        Employing cool condom slogan
A condom slogan is indeed one of the most effective ways of making condoms cool. The condom slogan should be something that men can identify with and which is catchy and memorable. It goes without saying that most men cringe at the idea of buying condoms over the counter because of the stigma associated with the word “condom” in its literal sense. How about coming up with a slogan that will make the purchase of condoms easier for the ordinary Tanzanian man? A good, catchy and interesting slogan will make the buying of condom easier and even make discussions on condoms interesting and not awkward. The use of cool slogans such as “hakuna mechi bila jezi” or “usiseme condom sema jezi” would surely make it easier for men to buy condoms and look at condoms as cool.
Conclusion

To sum it up, the need for safe sex among the Tanzanian populace is something that cannot be overlooked. Considering that insisting on abstinence is more or less unsustainable, attention should shift on making condoms cool and much more acceptable to men across the divide. Emphasis should be on changing perceptions and creating a paradigm shift on what has largely been seen as a taboo subject over the years. Condom use should be seen as something interesting and part and parcel of a sexual act. This is the only sure way through which the scourge of HIV aids can be contained and further infections halted. It also provides a bright future where people are cognizant of the need for safe sex and living in a healthy society!

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